“As for you, my son Solomon, know the God of your father, and serve Him with a loyal heart and with a willing mind…” – 1st Chronicles 28:9 (NKJV)
King David was not a perfect parent. He made many mistakes in both his leadership skills and poor parental control over his family. You may recall when he disobeyed God and ordered a census of the fighting men in Israel and Judah (2nd Samuel 24, 1st Chronicles 21). While taking a census is not inherently sinful, the biblical text suggests David’s motivation was rooted in pride and a lack of faith in God’s protection.
Evidence of King David, exercising poor parental skills in a family crisis, can be found in 2nd Samuel 13:21, when he refused to act despite the sexual violation of his daughter. King David was briefed about the matter and did nothing to punish his son, Amnon, and resolve the pain, disgrace, and suffering that his daughter went through. This refusal to act resulted in a snowball effect of consequences that resulted in Absalom (David’s son) killing Amnon, his brother, and an attempt to overthrow his father, kill him, and steal his throne (2nd Samuel 15).
Friends, despite all of King David’s trials and failures, including plotting the assassination of his commander to marry the man’s wife, he did one thing constantly: he was always repentant for his transgressions, and based on his experience, he taught his son Solomon the following:
- To be strong and of good courage as he took on the responsibility of ruling and building the temple. (1st Chronicles 28:9-20)
- The importance of keeping all of God’s commandments. (1st Kings 2:1-4)
- To exercise righteous judgement upon the people, ensuring fairness and justice. (1st Kings 2:1-9)
- Provided detailed plans for building the Lord’s temple, including its treasury and layout, demonstrating the importance of this sacred structure. (1st Chronicles 28:11-19)
- God would be with him throughout the process of building the temple, offering reassurance and encouragement. (1st Chronicles 28:20)
- Guidance on dealing with both his enemies and friends. (1st Kings 2:5-9)
Brethren, although David made colossal mistakes as a parent, he used the wisdom he gained to minister to his heir and leave a clear inheritance plan. This is one lesson we can truly learn from – our mistakes are not the end of us. Repent and provide sound guidance to the next generation.
Read: 2 Samuel 12:10; Psalm 37:4
Bible Reading Guide: Psalm 95; 1 Corinthians 7:36-40; 1 Corinthians 8; Ecclesiastes 7; Ecclesiastes 8; Ecclesiastes 9:1-12